Lies are neither bad nor good. Like a fire they can either keep you warm or burn you to death, depending on how they’re used.
The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It’s the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared.
Physical attractions are common. A mental connection is rare.
Do not tell everyone your story. You will only end up feeling more rejected. People cannot give you what you long for in your heart. The more you expect from people’s response to your experience of abandonment, the more you will feel exposed to ridicule.
Time has a way of showing us what really matters.